It’s all about attitude
Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. But attitude, ah yes attitude, determines how well you do it. It has been said that attitude often determines one’s altitude. And this seems to be the bottom line of that which happens in much of life.
The eastern horizon had a faint tinge of pink on the edge of the skyline. It was not quite 5 a.m. But the work began early on our dairy and vegetable farm. The memory of this day goes back three score and fourteen years ago when I was a fifth-grader. My teacher often said, “Robert … a good attitude gets the job done and it will determine your altitude in life.” I really never knew back then what she meant. But as life moved on, I now fully appreciate her wisdom.
As the family chores got underway that morning, we discovered that there was an electric power outage. My first chore was to bring the dairy cattle in for milking from the pasture. But to my dismay, I discovered the cattle had challenged the non-functioning electric fencing. They were grazing in the neighbor’s corn field! It was quite a challenge to get the cattle back into their own pasture, particularly against their “corn feasting” will. But I kept telling myself, “A good attitude gets the job done.” And then, to make matters even more difficult, we realized there was no electric power to run the milking machines; milking now had to be done by hand.
With the passage of events, I realized that time had fleeted by, and it was time to get ready for school. It was a small country school about two miles away. However, one more problem now surfaced, the tire on my bicycle was flat. With a positive attitude in place, a quick patch- job temporarily took care of that problem. So far, it had been quite a morning, and the sun was barely over the horizon. But, with a right attitude, the tone for action had been set in motion.
And so, that was the beginning of a new day, with several unexpected events. But then, for most everyone, every day has an event or two which may be unexpected. Somehow, we adjust and move on; it is all about one’s attitude.
I have found that how one chooses to deal with events can have a most significant impact on the outcome. Having a positive outlook, being hopeful, excited about the myriad of possibilities … these are the steps which lead to positive outcomes. Worrying about what we have to get done, anxious about having enough time to do it, confused about the best way to get it all done … these can detract from successful results.
I have found that having a positive attitude is not something that can be learned by playing a video. The ability to stay positive must come from the within. It is a lifestyle choice that requires ever-vigilant attention and consistent effort. We all know people who seem to be always positive, optimistic, and energetic. Their smile is contagious and we want to bask a bit in their glow. We learn from one another.
To be sure, a positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results. To be sure, one cannot tailor-make all of life’s situations, but one can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations. I believe that attitude is contagious. A positive attitude gives energy to oneself and to others.
I have found that by keeping your attitudinal thoughts positive they become your words. By keeping your words positive they become your behavior. By keeping your behaviors positive they become your habits.
When you keep your habits positive they become your values. And in the final step, by keeping your values positive they become your destiny.
To be sure, attitude determines one’s altitude just as my teacher said many years ago. My teacher was wise indeed.
Dr. Robert L. Heichberger is professor emeritus at the State University of New York at Fredonia. He is an award winning author.All past columns can be viewed on http://www.fromourperspective.net/ Send comments to: Rheich@aol.com